I just needed to get something off my chest that my new Disney Hubbie doesn't seam to see anything wrong with. Back when we started to plan to get married in Disney, his parents booked tickets (first class, better than us), and planned to go. Back in January this year my DH (the DF) had a very big fall out with his parents over a birthday card for his mom. Anyway his mom (who the arguement was over), stay out of the arguement and perferred to see us when his Dad wasn't around. This started to annoy me as she would not stand up for herself and say that us delivery the birthday card three days late wasn't a problem (which said to us). Just before we flew to America, Hubbie Mom came round with a card. We thought it contained the money that his parents was going to give us ($4000). It didn't. She left and we were disappointed as we took out a loan to cover their section of the wedding they promised to pay. We landed back in England and as soon as we landed she wanted to come over. We were very jet lagged and depressed to be back in England, wondering were all the sunshine was. We were hoping she wanted to see, to give us money or at least a toaster. She saw all the photos and then left without saying anything - I wanted to call her mom but felt it was wrong. About a month of us being back DH decided to try and make it up with his dad. He dad said he didn't see a point and that he hated my DH choice of wife. I have always been on very good behaviour when I saw them and my DH kept trying to tell me they were the Queen, but I still wanted them to like me. About two weeks ago I got in trouble as I missed a couple payment for the loan I took out. We asked hubbie's mom for help and she came through with the payments £350 in total (about $700) and we borrowed it. We hadn't see her till sunday where she managed to stay five minutes then made her excuses and left. We are still in the phase of being a little short for money since the wedding. Hubbie and I have been arguing about his mom. I don't see why we should rush to get the money to her, and Hubbie still doesn't see what she did wrong and wants to pay her for the sake of missing house hold bills. I just wanted to vent and see if I am sort of right on the subject. Also I wanted to see if you have problems with your new or soon to be mother and father-in-laws.