Awww, so heartbreaking as a parent to watch your son go through this. It sort of reminds me of what Walt once said:
“I think it’s important to have a good hard failure when you're young. I learned a lot out of that. Because it makes you kind of aware of what can happen to you. Because of it I’ve never had any fear in my whole life when we’ve been near collapse and all of that. I’ve never been afraid. I’ve never had the feeling I couldn’t walk out and get a job doing something.”
I’m sure he’ll go on to do great things.
Yay for passing your math test, first try woo hoo!
I really liked my medsurg clinicals when in school. You just never know what you will come across, such a great learning experience.
Ok, I am only on page 4 of this report. I will get caught up on it. I think you and I have met! You were in Nashville with Mary (Maroo here on the DIS) and some friends and you all stopped in the Disney Store and said hi! I remember reading about your time in Crapistan. Can't wait to continue reading!
Lynn
Oh, what a disappointment! I know how much you were looking forward to spend time here on the DIS in the coming week... And the money could have been used for many far more fun things, too!
So I'm going to attempt this on my phone. Difficult at best, so here goes nuthin'.
Thank you for the encouragement, Cynthia! I do believe that, and trust that this is but a small bump in the road and only a hiccup along the way. Things are so very unclear right now and more questions remain than there are answers.
First order of business is talking to his cadre to find out what the timeline is for getting to basic and with that info either getting a job or not. And getting his first car or not.
I will say that the conversation with Dad last night went very well. Mike re-iterated that he was dang proud of him and knows how tough those programs are. He asked the questions that just aren't answerable yet and offered some other options including coming back to OSU part time if the Army would let him stall a bit.
Anyway, we got our next term's calendar and the reading blitz has begun.
BTW, tried to call. Contemplating a quick trip up to your neck of the woods.... Will call again.... Meantime, I'll enjoy my margarita and pretend it's that virtual glass of red wine.
OMG! My worst nightmare happened. I had high hopes of spending embarrassing amounts of time here to relax on break. However, my laptop's screen just completely died. I just got back from the repair shop where they told me it'll be back with a new screen in 5 business days and will *only* cost $150.
I will go to a friend's place a bit later to at least catch on replies today. Ugh.
Leisa, I'm sorry to hear about your son. I am sure all will turn out for the best for him.
We've done the Not-so-scary party twice. Personally, we won't do it again...they oversell it. But I think everyone should do it at least once.
Oh man, so sorry to read about what's going on with your son. I hope everything works out for him in a way that makes him happy and a way that you and his dad can not worry over too much.
Congrats on the A!!
Love the baby pic and hope that little family is doing okay.
We thoroughly enjoyed MNSSHP when we went- I love the short wait times and since I'm a night owl being in the park so late without having to go in the summer is extra fun. I don't know that we'd do it again because I try to do something new on each trip and don't really have the funds to repeat old favorites that cost extra AND spring for new experiences. But we'll do MVMCP this time and get to have a similar-but-not-really experience.
I intended to post a few pics but I see that they've already switched back to posting pics from a URL instead of allowing to do it straight from the computer. My internet is too slow for that fiasco but perhaps when I'm at work tomorrow I'll have time.
So sorry to read the news about your son Liesa. Praying for some path-straightening.
Sorry to hear about Andrew. It does sound like he has some options though.
Congrats on passing your math test... try #1!!!!
Sorry I missed your call! Was at the gym and then out for a run If you get a chance, tomorrow after 10 am is probably pretty good!
As is a margarita, yum!
OSU part time could be a great option if that can be negotiated (definitely worth asking the question!) and thumbs up to Mike for handling it so well.
Now onto the pressing business at hand. I share this here because, I know you all can appreciate the ups and downs of life, and we all need a place to vent. That and I really don't have the liberty to share the following on FB for the obvious reasons. There is a tiny bit of anonymity here where the involveds eyes don't go. My heart is pretty sad right now.
Our oldest son has been going to WKU (go Hilltoppers) where he was about 3/5 of the way through his Mechanical Engineering program. I got a phone call today from him telling us he has dropped out because he lost his Army ROTC scholarship and can't afford the out-of-state tuition to continue on. The reasons he lost the scholarship are probably multiple, and right now isn't the time to speculate and come down hard on him. It is a TOUGH program; I get that. And he tried very hard, but it just wasn't enough.
On a happier note, and I know most of you saw this on FB, I passed this term's math test yesterday on the first attempt. We get 3 tries to pass it with a 100%. If you don't you are automatically out of the program, so no pressure or anything. We also got our Rotation assignments for the term, and I am SO excited to have gotten 3 weeks in the Labor and Delivery and Mother and Baby Units at our local hospital. I also have several night shifts at another local hospital in a general Med-Surg floor. That'll be awesome!
Well it took a while, but I did get through all 31 pages (some hit & miss but still skimmed seriously). Sorry about your son losing the scholarship, that's a tough pill to swallow but it sounds like he's keeping his head held high and as his mom, that should make you proud.
My husband & I got to go to the Halloween Party in 2013 when we did our "quickie" visit to see our son. We loved it. Hope you get to attend when you go!!
Hi Liesa, I'm sorry that Andrew lost his scholarship! It is funny, I still remember when you told us about him starting it, here on the Dis! I hope it will work out well for him and also for you. I'm very impressed I handled this all by himself. He seems to be much more "adult" than I was at his age…
And I'm sorry for the computer problems as well! That's definitely not like you planned your very few days of vacation!!! I try to steal some time reading the disboards on my mobile as well: waiting for a bus, etc. But commenting it (more than liking posts) it really frustrating.
Unfortunately we don't have a trip to Kentucky planned this year. But we definitely want to visit with Mikes host family next year or in 2017. So there is a slight chance to meet then
So sorry about Andrew and the scholarship. Sounds like he has a plan so hope that works itself out.
Double UGH on the computer screen.
Just called about my laptop; should be ready by Monday. Just in time for Break to be over.