Hair is not the battle I fight with either DS or DD. DS17 was rocking the wild man outta control hair last year. I disliked it, a lot. He wanted nothing to do with cutting it. My only rule was, if he was out with me, he had to have it clean and combed, as in I had to see him comb it. There were times he would claimed to have combed it, but you could have fooled me to look at. I think someone at school finally said something to him spring of last year. He said he wanted to get a hair cut, but he didn't know what he wanted. I took him to one of the newer mens salons that had opened in town and let a really cute 23 year old cut his hair and she gave him a good shave too. It was some of the best money I had spent in a long time.