Hi Gang! Lisa - you really need to EMAIL me before you cross the border!!! Thinking about you with your parents - the stuff with my mom is very intense right now. it's too bad we can't have a weekly destressing meet up! Meg - yes, we all do process in our own way, so true. Lisa is right. Sometimes it takes a long time to get back - sometimes we never get there, just to somewhere new. You had a really good beginning, a good story and good times to hang onto - those beginnings help when the toad gets rocky, which is always does. Tell us more about the wedding! Who is she marrying? Father of the baby? Yes?