Okay, I do have to back up a bit here a say that while DH has his faults (trash, blankets, etc...), I do have to give him some credit because he does help me around the house. But it has to be when he wants to, not just if I nag him, KWIM? There have been plenty of nights when he cooked dinner (although I usually clean up after him). He has also helped me clean the house and can do it as well as I. And he does a lot with our children. The good thing about it all is that he KNOWS and does appreciate what I do here. He tells others that I have a tougher job than he does. He really isn't bad, he just does some things to irritate the crap out of me! But, then again, I have some faults of my own that irritates him too!