congrats on deciding....POR is nice I'm sure. Never stayed there myself but it looks lovely. I've stayed at POP, All Star Music, All Star Movies and AKL all solo female traveling with no issues. I usually ask for an upper level room at the values. I've come back late at night and the areas are always well lit and there are CMs around and other guests. Fingers crossed you get the third night at PO. That would be a pain to switch resorts for one night.