Christine you are super awesome! Yes that's the one she likes, hehe. Mike however prefers my full name. I love the monogram of the S and M. It's all about compromise. So it's official. We put in the request for the date change. I'm busy looking at hair clips. I can't decide for tiara, barrette/clip, or flower. Any opinions? I know the tiara is really popular. But I think with the hair choices (#3 and 6 from the pics) barrettes/flowers are the way to go. Hmmm... Also thinking about jewelry. I have this really small blue sapphire/diamond necklace my mom permenantly lent to me, that my dad gave to her so it's old and sentimental. I'm not a big bracelet person, and earrings I really love chandelier earrings but I'm paranoid about heavy earrings. I HATE heavy earrings. I want ones that look beautiful and ornate but are actually really light. I don't know. I also want to include an old locket in my bouquet with pictures of our cats, hehe. And I found (more like stole) these awesome shoes from Katie/Princess Shea. They are adorable!!! They are kinda expensive but my mom thnks they're cute too and doesn't mind paying for the wedding stuff since I'll only be getting married once. I'm not sure. I like the flip flop idea but I should have nice shoes and I think these are cute, nice, but able to reuse them, and quirky...like me! Plus Katie says they are comfortable.