I just need some advice from people who have been there and understand.
If one more person tells me that my daughter, "doesn't look autistic" I am going to bite them.
Happy to help if possible. Daughter has Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. She looks very healthy, but people cannot see, nor understand, that her joints are dislocating and she is in incredible pain. We have had wonderful experiences at Disney parks, though. If we have had rude looks, I haven't noticed them.