My daughter went for two days last year and said we need to see World of Color. Is that different than the new Paint the Night? If so, is one better than the other?
It is worth noting that a new version of World of Color debuted last Friday along with the new parade (Paint the Night) and fireworks show (
Disneyland Forever). So the show your daughter saw last year is no longer being presented. The new show is getting somewhat tempered reviews, but I think the basic structure is the same. I haven't seen the new show, but nothing has indicated that they've improved the viewing area, so I'd guess the same issues remain (if you're short, seeing the show is difficult).
And for the fireworks and nighttime parades, are FPs available or do we have to queue up and sit there for a couple of hours?
As others have said, there are no FPs for the fireworks or parade, so you will have to stake out a spot if you want one. Guests start lining the parade route from mid-morning to see the new parade. If you are okay with a further back spot, you can probably wait until a few hours before the show to find a spot. Fireworks has many more viewing areas. DLR deliberately scheduled the fireworks to start almost as soon as the parade and F! end so that guests watch the fireworks from wherever they are, rather than try to move around (F! ends at 9:22, the parade at 9:25 pm, and fireworks starts at 9:30 pm). The fireworks are designed to be viewed from Main Street, IaSW Mall, and the F! viewing areas. Each area has different benefits and drawbacks.
Just wondering because we have never been and since she and her husband are moving back to the midwest in the fall, we may never be back, so my main focus is the DL rides that are not at WDW, then the ones that are better at DL. I don't want to sit around waiting for parades and fireworks.
I think you can probably see the fireworks without sacrificing too much time (if you're willing to have a non-prime spot), but the PtN parade and WoC show will require more time. I'd say, you'd need to put in at least an hour for the second parade, much more for the first parade and at least 1.5 to 2.0 hours for WoC. You can find a lot of good info about WoC (not the show necessarily, but the set-up and viewing area) in the
WoC SuperThread. In terms of the parade, the minimum wait is probably going to be for the second parade. If you watch the fireworks from somewhere on the parade route (e.g., Main Street) and move immediately to the parade spot after fireworks ends, you have a good chance of getting a front row spot (but you will have to wait about an hour for the parade).
As a WDW Vet, I suggest taking a look at
HydroGuy's DLR Guide for WDW Vets to get a sense of what is similar and what is different between the two resorts, including the attractions.