Marie, my sweet friend...I am so sorry your grandmother has passed....what a month you've had. Thankful our dad is going to recover and pray it will be better than expected. Of course, Allan (and you) are tucked in my heart and unceasing prayer. Sending much love and a big, gentle hug. The DL Diva trip is a light in a tunnel for me too! That airfare had better do so,e big dropping - or else! I know it has to be difficult to say no to your son - it would change the trip for you and you'd be "mom" not just one of the girls. Whatever you decide, I support completely.