You know...we have just thought of a plan....to surprise DD without making DS feel bad. I was worried about how I would pack for the trip and stuff without DD noticing. I waivered between telling her just "I" was going away and trying to stealth pack her stuff, or telling her that we are both going away somewhere...but somewhere other than Disney. So one of our friends came up with a great idea that I think is brilliant. A bit closer to the time - maybe about a few weeks out, I will tell DD that I have decided to take HER to Washington, DC. That way, DS will hopefully think that's fair, since he has already been there, and she won't be suspicious of me packing up clothes for her etc...Then...on the actual day we leave, either on the way to the airport or once we get to the airport - I will spill the beans about going to WDW. I may even act like I "can" be totally spontaneous lol and be all "so...I know I said we were going to Washington, but...how would you like to go to Disney World instead"...lol I don't know if she will buy it but...it will be awesome anyway lol.