I know, get over it. My best friend of 15 years has always enjoyed being the center of attention. She can best described as attention seeking. She likes big parties for her birthday, she had a gigantic wedding, her Facebook statuses are always uber dramatic. You get the drift. I don't normally mind any of that, her parties are fun. But man if you forget to do something for her or celebrate her big day ( I had to miss a party once to go to an in laws funeral And she didn't speak to me for a week). My issue is that she does not reciprocate. She always forgets my birthday. Now with Facebook reminders, she didn't forget, I got a text just now at 11 pm. If she attends a party for me, it ends up being about her. Sprained ankle with crutches. A big fall on the way in. She had to be wheelchaired down the aisle for another wedding she was in due to an ankle injury that disappeared the next day. It's just her world and we are living in it. Would it have killed her to call and say happy birthday? I did call after getting her text, I went to voicemail. I guess it doesn't help that my husband doesn't care for her.