longneckthree
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Aug 26, 2007
Hi all. I am a lurker and am amazed at the depth of knowledge y'all have. So I thought what a great place to come for some support and maybe some help.
My mother is 75 , living alone about 2 hours from me. I have one brother(who is no help with anything - he thinks my mom's drinking isn't a problem). She's gets enough money to live on if she lived within her means and didn't go to the corner store three times a day to "get her dinner" but she really buying wine. She tells everyone what they want to hear and agrees with everything. Right now my uncle has taken over her bills (or is trying to) He lives in Maryland and we live in MA, so its tough for them. Also she has no social life - she doesn't want one(except if she can drink). We have offered to have her live here but we don't drink and she doesn't like my husband>
So two Questions
1. How do you get an alcoholic to stop drinking?( And she's driving while drinking) and
2. Would having her declared incompetent help in any way?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you in advance!!
Maggie
My mother is 75 , living alone about 2 hours from me. I have one brother(who is no help with anything - he thinks my mom's drinking isn't a problem). She's gets enough money to live on if she lived within her means and didn't go to the corner store three times a day to "get her dinner" but she really buying wine. She tells everyone what they want to hear and agrees with everything. Right now my uncle has taken over her bills (or is trying to) He lives in Maryland and we live in MA, so its tough for them. Also she has no social life - she doesn't want one(except if she can drink). We have offered to have her live here but we don't drink and she doesn't like my husband>
So two Questions
1. How do you get an alcoholic to stop drinking?( And she's driving while drinking) and
2. Would having her declared incompetent help in any way?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you in advance!!
Maggie