Okay, I'm at the 4 month mark. Is there anything I should be doing? And is it bad that I'm more looking forward to actually being married, then to my wedding itself? I'm excited about the wedding but not exxxccciiiittteeeddd about the wedding. I just think about being married to my DF and I get butterflies and smiley and excited! I'm so worried that I'm really not doing enough and the wedding is going to come and I'm going to forget things and it's going to be a disaster, anyone else feel like this? Oh and I got my initial budget today .