My DH and I just talked about their divorce. In all this mess they have said that they are doing it for the kids. Wouldn't you want to work on your marriage...for the kids! As a married couple they need to put their relationship first so that it is strong...for the kids! I wish you were the judge! I have a feeling you would give them a piece of your mind, and they need honesty right now. You'll have to watch the show.