I made a stupid mistake. I was signing the petition for the gay boy who is being thrown off the scouts for being gay and i left a comment that stated " for those that frown upon us for our son being gay I say '"my son is in a top school studing to become a nuclear engineer, does comunity work on his spare time and has the best heart" ...what is your son doing? " ..I had no idea that it was going to be posted in my facebook page. the thing is that although my son does not care if everybody knows ( my whole family knows) my husband's family is another story. they are closed minded so we decided not to deny it if they ask but not to come out and say it. I am very proud of our son but this is not the way i wanted to let EVERYBODY know. I erased my comment because this was not the way i inteded it to be and I hate the thought of judment from even people who I haven't seen since high school and who don't even know my son!! sorry.. I just had to vent! I called my DH and he just said that it is out there no use being sorry for but I know it's hard for him since he works with his family and we live in a very small country where everybody is in everybody's buisness.