Here is the situation. I have known my MOH for almost 15 years now. She and I are pretty close until recently. Basically here is the deal. A few weeks before we got engaged she asked me if this was "really going to happen". I guess I was dumbstruck. Since then, I have planned dress shopping with her and my other bridesmaids several times. The one time she did go with, she didn't like anything in the store. Since then, I have planned around her schedule and now she is telling me she can't go after all this weekend. I am about ready to lose my mind. Then she asks me if I am going to pay her way down to DisneyWorld. I was pretty frank with her that I am not able to afford that for everyone. We are pretty broke with the wedding and me being out of work right now. Basically it was left like let me see if I can fit it in. I am just disgusted and hurt right now. I don't know what to do. I want her to come and be there, but I would like a little more support from the friend that has been with me the longest. I just don't get it. I understand the money issue, we all have that. I guess my point is that if you don't want to be in the wedding that is fine. Just let me know. If you don't want to come, that is fine to. I am just really hurt.