Well, we are home..and BAMB didn't need to come bail me out! Lets put it this way.. they were fighting so much among themselves that I was left alone...but fully entertained! They waste so much time and energy on fighting w/ each other over what there wicked stepmom starts.. The sad thing is this stepmom came into their lives when the kids were older (DH out of college) and tried to convince their dad he didn't need to be in their lives... their dad didn't falter from being their dad and just told her not to be a part of his kids lives if she didn't want to try.. so it's a his family/her family.. She started a lot of stuff which I witnessed and over heard...but it just proves the point why DH and I keep the kids from contact w/ her. So, in a nutshell w/o too much details.. I(WE)survived.. Was able to dance and have fun w/ my kids and DH.. Drove back towards home.. as I passed Kaddjr's road to her house I waved and hollar SUCCESS! I hope she heard me! We headed to the hotel, swam that night and the following morning.. Headed out to have lunch in southern part of the state.... to our first soccer game..and WE Won! We won!!! Our boys were awesome! Headed home for a basketball scrimmage from same DS...and finally got dinner about 9pm last night..and off to bed for school!!!