Of course, I'm just kidding, but seriously I don't know what to do with her. She will be 5 in 2 weeks. There are times she is such a sweet little girl and other times. I want to ring her neck. She had some problems with 2 little girls in our neighborhood. They were mean to her and one mom of the little girls told me all this mean stuff my DD said to her DD. I didn't believe her, but with my DD's actions lately I'm beginning to wonder. Today I got together with my friend, her DD and mine are the same age. They don't see each other alot but get along well. We went to the local playground. Big place, 3 sections. The other mom and I were talking checking where they were, then I couldn't see either one. I get up to go look and an older lady comes over and says is that your daughter? I say yea. She told me she threw a rock at her granddaughter and when she told her to stop , my DD threw one at grandma. I asked DD if she did it she said yea. I wanted to talk to her at the playground but she started the screaming and wouldn't sit, so i told my friend we were leaving and I went to the car. DD won't let me leave her so she followed. I got her in and she was hysterical because she didn't want to leave. I try to talk to her again, she wouldn't so I started pulling away. I'm still in the parking lot, but DD yells I don't want to leave unbuckles herself and opens the car door. I jam the vehicle in park , get out and open her door, and I grabbed her by the shoulders and told her to sit down and I think I yelled something not so nice. I know I should have calmed down but she had me so upset. I turn around to leave and a County policeman is sitting there and asks me if everything is OK. OMG!!!! I say yea she's having a tantrum and we leave. She threatens to unbuckle herself 2 more times on the way home but doesn't. I'm still shaking. She is in her room, barewalled. I cleared every toy and stuffed animal out and told her I didn't know when she could come out. I talked to her again. She said she doesn't know why she threw the rock at the girl and didn't throw a rock at grandma just put her hand back like she was ( like that makes a difference) I talked to her about what could have happenedwhen she opened the car door but I don't think she fully understands. I told her no friends, no playdates indefinetly . And I'm not sure when she's coming out of her room, (maybe in 10 years) . She gets punished for her behavior, timeouts, sitting in the corner, taking privlages away, nothing works.