some of you will remember this: http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1795299&page=1&highlight= and thankyou for all your wonderful support. Well now hes bought the ring and they are setting a date for next year....I dont know how to pretend to be happy. I am so very sad. You have children and have hopes and dreams and you know that they will go there own way hopefully the right way but this is just so sad. I can already see the problems, they are getting married next year and will probally look for some help with wedding cost, We are going to Disney next year which we knew we were going to do since we came back in 2005, I cant afford both.....am I being selfish? I am just so sad.