Let me start this by saying pajammatam looks absolutely wonderful! She lost all she needs to loose in less than 3wks! Ive been dieting for 4wks and have only managed to loose 4lbs & 4.5inches. I dont even feel like I should be discussing diets w/her. Or even having her join me for walks around the "gerbil track". Hopefully I can loose the 20lbs in the next 20wks but comparing myself to my friend just aint working. Im getting discouraged. How do you handle it when your friend looses all she needs to loose and you havent even made a dent?