We are having all kinds of issues with DS's (8) school this year. He is in 2nd grade. Alittle background...DS has horrible allergies(chronic sinutius, lots of mucus a lot..), and a very strong gag relflex and chokes easily due to this. He coughed at school 2 weeks ago and vomitted due to the cough and mucus. Most got into the waste basket, some missed. The office lady sent him up to get his backpack to go home. Then when he got back, she asked him to go clean up his vomit!!!! So, he did. (Superintendant didn't believe me when I called, but confirmed my DS was correct after talking to her!). The thing is with this...he also has a plan where he is to use an inhaler when he coughs this bad. They completely dis-reguarded this. This upsets me more than anything. Now, they are checking his lunch bag I pack everyday to see what he has eaten, if he has eaten enough to go outside for recess. I explained that I send many items for him to chose from, he'll eat what he can (mucus days...he'll avoid crackers, for example.) I also have a doctors note supporting the gag relux thing (it's not him just choosing not to eat certain things..he will choke). Well, today they (office personnel and school nurse) called him out of class to the office and told him to eat slowly, yada yada. Then they called him out again after they had spoken to me about his issues, to explain the "rules of the lunch room" and that they expect him to follow the rules. BTW, rules are all clean trays (or lunch boxes) may go 1st to recess, 1 item left next, 2 items, ect. I don't feel he should have to sit there when I am sending his lunch, and if they tell him he can't go, he'll try to eat more...then vomit. Any suggestions???? I don't know what to do. I feel they are more concerned with making the loves of the school personnel easier than the medical safety of my DS. Also I have no troubles with his teacher...all is well there! Am I crazy for being upset? Please no flames if they are out there. Thanks dis friends!