So there seems to be a big mess with Df's mother & her family. Apparently she has been talking about our wedding not being a big deal & that people really shouldn't go out of their way to come. Here's where I need help! We are having a wishes wedding, but now with everyone not coming we are down to approx. 18 people. We don't know if we should change to the escape wedding. Our wedding is in 4 mths and now we would have to change our date and there is a real big chance of us not being able to keep the WP. We really don't know what to do! I am so afraid of it looking cheesy. Our reception is at the White Hall, we had planned on 35-40 people, but now I'm afraid we will look lost in the room. Our planning session is in 17 days. We need to make our decision fast! Has anybody had a wishes wedding with 18 or less people? Can you even still have a wishes wedding?