PhoenixStrength
Found my Prince Charming!
- Joined
- Oct 7, 2010
Life Update
For those that aren't friends with me on Facebook, I've had a rough few days. On Thursday I was sitting for my aunt's cats while she was out of state, and my sister was caring for my pets. I got a call at 6am that my dog, Phoenix, had vomited before being fed breakfast and was now refusing to eat his breakfast. That is unusual for him as he never turns down food, but I thought he probably just had an upset stomach. At that point he seemed find otherwise, but over the course of the morning he started shaking, panting and having trouble urinating so she offered to take him to the vet since she was off work. She got him in there late morning and xrays found mineralization around his prostate, which was twice it's normal size. My wonderful sister Lisa then took him to the emergency vet to get sample tissue to send away, as there were 2 possible causes for the mineralization: severe infection or prostate cancer. The only way to tell was get the tissue sample and that had to be done at a vet with an ultrasound to make sure they got the prostate and not the bladder. The wonderful emergency vet gave me a discount since I work for a vet, and let my sister bring the sample to my work to mail out so I could get it done at 1/4 the price they would have charged.
Unfortunately the news was bad. I got the results on Saturday and it is aggressive prostate cancer. With prostate cancer in dogs surgery is not an option, only chemo which tends to not work well and doesn't extend their life very long. So I have him on pain meds, antibiotics for an infection that is caused by the tumor and a steroid to reduce the size of the tumor for now so he can more comfortably urinate. The vet basically said what will happen is eventually the tumor will get so big that he cannot urinate anymore and I'll have to make the decision to end his suffering at that point. She estimated 2 months, but it could be less or more.
This is absolutely devastating to me as he and my cats are like my children. Phoenix is only 10 years old and has always been in great health with no real health issues ever. I truly believed I'd have at least another 4-5 years with him and now I have only months. I knew my cat Jynx had medical issues that I'm dealing with, but I never thought he would since until Thursday morning he seemed absolutely fine. Thankfully the vet I work with has been helping me a lot with research, medication information and reassuring me that I'm doing the best thing I can for him by keeping him comfortable and letting him live out the rest of his life with me.
So, rough weekend for me with lots of tears shed. For now the pain meds and antibiotic are helping and he seems much more comfortable and able to go easier. I'll just keep a close eye on him, give him lots of love, pets and treats and wait for him to let me know it's time.