guy troubles

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  1. minniesBFF

    minniesBFF I miss the tag fairy

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    I just had to get this off of my chest because it keeps bugging me.

    This guy I know asked me out last week, and I told him that I didn't like him like that and that I just wanted to be friends. Well, afterwards he just kept asking me over and over, probably 10 times in the same day so I was getting kind of frustrated. I kept telling him I didn't want to go out with him, then he dropped a guilt bomb and said the reason I won't go out with him is because he's fat!! Now he sends me about one text message a day begging me to go out with him, and now he's calling me. He's called me four times already tonight. I don't want to answer the phone because I know he'll just ask me out again and I don't want to deal with that right now. And I feel like a jerk for not answering the phone.

    okay, I'm done. :blush:
     
  2. Raichu

    Raichu DIS Veteran

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    Tell him that looks don't matter to you but you still only see him as a friend, or maybe after awhile he will give up.
     
  3. pixiedust1209me

    pixiedust1209me About Girly-girl Me

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    I would tell him the truth and to maybe even say please stop calling because it would makes things worse.
     
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  5. tinkerbell12

    tinkerbell12 If you can be my bodyguard, I can be your long los

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    ^ ::yes:: to what they said.
     
  6. 2HOT2touch

    2HOT2touch The finishline is only the begining of a whole new

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    if he isn't listening to you, then I say, have someone else talk to him, see if they can make him understand.
     
  7. minniesBFF

    minniesBFF I miss the tag fairy

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    he's pretty stubborn, that's why he keeps asking me even though I've said no a few (hundred) times. but I think that if I leave him alone for a while he'll give up on me. but I still feel kinda bad for ignoring his calls, which he called again not too long ago. :sad2:
     
  8. Mur13

    Mur13 DIS Veteran

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    block his im, take his number out of your phone. then you can say you don't answer random numbers. I don't, got too many people calling the wrong number.
     
  9. lalastephanie

    lalastephanie DIS Veteran

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    Do what they said.Thats the same advice i'd give.
     
  10. pirateprinces_dancer

    pirateprinces_dancer Future Mrs.Wentz...OMC!!! Future Mrs.Beckett....OM

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    i like the take his # out of your phone and say u don't answer to random ppl.....LOVE that idea
     
  11. wishspirit

    wishspirit When you wish upon a star!

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    Tell him its not because he's fat... its beacuse he's a jerk who can't take a hint!

    Next time he calls, tell him the more he calls the madder and less unattractive it makes him. You don't want a realtionship right now and the pressure he's putting on you is making you not even like him as a friend any more!

    Its quite harsh, but if he isnt taking the hint, you may need to be!
     
  12. TinkInPink

    TinkInPink <font color=darkorchid>I once hurt myself eating a

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    while i have never faced this type of problem my best advice would be to sit down and have a serious talk about this with him. No "lets be friends" just be honest. No name calling, be sincere and truthful. He is a self conscious, insecure teenage guy, who may think you playing with him or playing hard to get.
     

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