something is not right with this.
Please don't call me a troll because IF you did, I'd be angry.
something is not right with this.
I know she doesn't unzip it when I'm not around because I get told that by her friends and teachers.
Sorry I've not been on in about 24 hours.
To anyone asking the temperature, all I know is its really cold which we get a lot here in Bonnie Scotland.
Now, regarding the "learn from natural consequences" comments, I really don't think that is a good idea for days that wind is gusting at about 90 miles an hour
When weather is as bad as that my daughter has no option but to zip her jacket, put up the hood (or wear a hat) and put on gloves.
Sorry I've not been on in about 24 hours.
To anyone asking the temperature, all I know is its really cold which we get a lot here in Bonnie Scotland.
Now, regarding the "learn from natural consequences" comments, I really don't think that is a good idea for days that wind is gusting at about 90 miles an hour
When weather is as bad as that my daughter has no option but to zip her jacket, put up the hood (or wear a hat) and put on gloves.
If you can't win the coat in the winter battle when she is 6 how are you going to win the bootie-shorts and tube top battle when she is 16?
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I have already said that I don't like the "learn from natural consequences" rule because I think its too dangerous to her health, just imagine going outside in 90+ mph winds with either no jacket on or the jacket unzipped!!
who is calling you anythingPlease don't call me a troll because IF you did, I'd be angry.
I have already said that I don't like the "learn from natural consequences" rule because I think its too dangerous to her health, just imagine going outside in 90+ mph winds with either no jacket on or the jacket unzipped!!
All that said, if - for whatever reason - this is terribly important to you, then try to disengage emotionally from the conflict. Make sure your daughter's coat is on a hook where she can easily reach it. Consider installing a thermometer. Calmly explain that when the temperature is below (whatever arbitrary temperature you decide on) that means she can't go anywhere without her coat on, hood up, zipper zipped. Don't get angry. Don't bargain, threaten, or plead.
.... If you're going out to something fun but not essential, and she fights you over the jacket, just skip it. Go get yourself a magazine and sit down. When she asks, "What about our fun outing?" explain that if she can't manage to put her own jacket on, then she'll be staying home. The first time she puts her own jacket on, voluntarily, make sure you smile and comment positively. Be happy when she's cooperative. The rest of the time, be calm.
I MAKE my kids wear their winter gear. We live where it gets really, really cold. They have come inside with frost bite on their cheeks because their scarf wasn't up all the way without even realizing it. I don't think it's a choice for 6&8 year olds to make. They hate it but too bad. My 11&13 year olds are also made to wear their touque, gloves and winter jacket. They can make the decision now if they like the feeling of their legs and skin thawing. Unless, of course,they are going to be out for a significant amount of time then they are told to gear up.
So how do you get them to zip their jackets then?
I MAKE my kids wear their winter gear. We live where it gets really, really cold. They have come inside with frost bite on their cheeks because their scarf wasn't up all the way without even realizing it. I don't think it's a choice for 6&8 year olds to make. They hate it but too bad. My 11&13 year olds are also made to wear their touque, gloves and winter jacket. They can make the decision now if they like the feeling of their legs and skin thawing. Unless, of course,they are going to be out for a significant amount of time then they are told to gear up.
I just tell them to do them up. They know if they don't listen they don't get to go out the next time the want to. I've only had to keep my daughter in once because she knows I'm serious. You didn't listen and do up your coat/ wear your gloves like I told you. You can now miss play time outside with the other kids. My 5 year old has never protested. So far my 8 year old has been the only one and like I said it only took one time of her watching the others have fun outside.
So does that mean I am wrong to zip it myself if she ignores me?