I'm sorry, but it isn't funny (or fun) to have to defend yourself against people who don't know you and have no idea of your medical condition!!! Sue, the officer you were "harassed by" (because that is what he did) seems to have been on a "power trip." It should have been sufficient to see your daughter. Even if she hadn't been in a chair, it should have been enough that it was her placard. After all, humans cannot see into other humans lives or feel their pain!