Fertile people adopting?

Discussion in 'Community Board' started by LuvinLucifer, Feb 12, 2013.

  1. Robbi

    Robbi DIS Veteran

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    Yes. My son used to clerk for a family court judge. After a couple of years, he couldn't take it anymore. He said it made him sick the way the laws kept handing children back to parents who were rotten to the core and had no business being parents.
     
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  3. skoi

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    Makes my dh sick as well. But it's how the laws are written. Family reunification is the thing to do. And this is one of the main reasons we chose to adopt internationally (and we caught, and still catch a lot of abuse for that-- why didn't you adopt an American kid???-- well, we didn't feel we could deal with the issues of a child who was severely abused/ neglected and couldn't afford private adoption-- no birth mom in private adoption would pick a family with a little house in the city, only dad worked, mom stayed home and home schooled and there wasn't tons of excess cash, so we looked international. Have two great kids-- special needs (by choice) with a lot of challenges, but we love them and embrace their differences.
     

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