I have just listed some maternity clothes on EBay. I have a bidder, but the person is -1 in feedback, and it's a guy(at least the negative feedback referred to him/her as a "him")....which normally wouldn't bother me, but with the -1 feedback I kind of feel like it's a scam. I read about the retracting of bids, but it sounds like I shouldn't(sounds like you should only retract if the bidder has requested), I just hate to see someone losing out on these clothes(which are really nice and since I"m having my baby next week I'm not going to list any more for a while) and I hate to lose out on my fees! I guess I should have put on my auction about retracting those with negative feedback, I've just not had a problem with it so far. What would you EBay experts do? TIA!