Hi Mickeynut! I'm getting to spend a little time on the boards, thought I would pop by and say hey! I will also say that the Grand Californian would be my recommendation for your DL stay. I've stayed at all three of the DLR hotels (CL only at Paradise Pier) and there is nothing like the ambience of the Grand Lobby and grounds and the proximity to the parks. I agree with Trisha that the DL hotel feels more remote and it always seems like a much longer walk at the end of the day. I pop back to my room much more often when I stay at the Grand. There is a tour of the DL hotel that you can take if you are there one of the days it is offered (there is one for the Grand as well). You can go see the lobbies of the DL hotel (especially Frontier tower - there is a fabulous scale model of Big Thunder in the lobby) and hang out at Trader Sam's and the fire pit to enjoy the historic old
Disneyland quality of the DL hotel but then have the lush comfort of a short walk and the beautiful lobby and grounds to enjoy at the Grand. Paradise Pier theme park view rooms look right into the Paradise Pier area of DCA, which is super fun too. Please feel free to ask any questions, DL is dreamy and you will have an amazing time if you go.