MossMan said:That's funny you should say that Dawn. My cousin actually felt the same way. Her husband has almost been obsessive about paying down these debts.
But that's one reason why she raised the money and booked the trip without his knowledge. She knew if she had brought the money to him, he would have argued to put it agains their debts. This way she was able to present the trip as a done deal. In the end, I think that is why he ended up being so accepting. What else could he do.
DawnM said:I am sorry to say that even if I found money, DH would never agree to spending it while we still had a loan out. I guess in some ways that is good, but honestly sometimes he can suck the fun right out of life (what I get for marrying an accountant!)
Hope she has a wonderful time.
Dawn