We JUST returned from a 7 night on the Fantasy with our 2.5 almost 3 yr old son. (Note: this is his 3rd cruise. He was also in the nursery at 7 months and for his 2 yr birthday. This was the first time we have had a hard time leaving him at the nursery because I personally feel he is too big for the nursery and too small (by Disney standards) for the kids club.
I think that it's a really hard age. We managed to do both the kids club (open house) and the nursery with him.
Here are my thoughts on the nursery...
Pros:
- HE seemed to like it there. There were toys to play with, cribs for a nap (he's big for a crib, but that's what they have), movies to watch.
- Because he was older, there didn't seem to be a worry about the "ratio" of kids to adult like with a baby - so we had no problem dropping him off anytime we needed with or without a reservation (and we were on a PACKED Easter cruise)!
- They adored him
Cons: This turned into a biggie for me
- They adored him... lol. I know doesn't seem like a con, but I did notice that whenever we picked him up (especially later in the evening) someone was holding him, rocking him in the rocking chair, or carrying him around. He's almost 3 and can walk just fine! I am by no means an unloving mommy, but I started making him walk, climb in and out or the car, etc on his own long ago. I mean he's over 30 lbs and carry him around all the time, just not going to happen! This proved to be a problem later in the week and continues even now - 2 weeks later. About half way into the cruise, I noticed something I have never seen him do. He wanted to be carried EVERYWHERE! No piggy back rides, it was up in the arms or a screaming fit!! It happened on the ship, in port, and the following week at Disney. It seemed like he would take 10 steps then insist to be carried. It took me a while to connect the dots and figure out that he got used to being cuddled/ treated more like a baby then a little boy.
This was by far the hardest age for him & cruising. He spent more time in the nursery then ever before - mainly because he didn't want to sit and watch the shows or have dinner. He just wanted to go "play". We took him to Nemo's reef on sea days and did other things with him, but left him on the ship for 2 port days (his grandparents were on the ship). He loved being on the ship but it was hard to get him to nap unless we insisted by blacking out our stateroom and napping ourselves (read loss of 2-3 hours a day that we thought we'd be doing other things). He just didn't like napping in the nursery. Skipped naps, late evenings in the nursery, and trouble with meals times made for a cranky kiddo pretty often. Not saying all kids are like that, but ours was at this age.
In total we spent about $165 on the nursery.