DH Passed Away Suddenly Before Our Trip - Update Post 267

[Ladybugsy]

How proud he must be of you!

I'm so sorry for your loss. But I think you are a wonderful, amazingly loving woman to complete this trip in his honor.

 

[TiffinyKC]

I would also like to add my sympathies. You sound like such a strong woman. As pp's have mentioned, he must be so proud of you.

You are in my thoughts.

 

[bytheblood]

Your post broke my heart! I am so very sorry for your loss. I will be keeping your family in prayer.

 

[dolfinjuls]

I am so incredibly sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers!

 

[disneychic]

Please accept my condolences. My heart breaks for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.

 

[LittleStinkerbelle]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

 

[Arenita]

I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers. I will be in Disney next week and will toss a coin into the wishing well wishing you peace and comfort and hope for future happiness.

What a sweet gesture...

I am so sorry for your great loss. I believe his spirit will be right there with you. It will be okay to shed a tear or two - wear sunglasses so you can so you can grieve with a measure of privacy. Peace and God Bless.

 

[blessedby3]

I am so sorry you have just lost your soul mate..prayers and hugs to you

 

[Dizneydawn]

As with the rest of the posters, I would like to add my sympathies to your loss and yet how very proud I am you are still going.

Then there is the joy I feel in the fact you were blessed with the man who filled you with so much happiness, because no better gift can be bestowed on us, no matter how short the time.

My cousin died a few months ago, barely into his 30's of a massive heart attack. Wife and 3 kids not knowing where to turn and still, so raw with grief.

A suggestion I gave her and will give to you, is Journal.

Find a beautiful book with pages not of simple paper but equisite design that you can write your thoughts and memories and pour your love into.

You will have him in every step you take at WDW and the legacy he will leave to that grandbaby is now in your hands. Take that book with you and stop to write when the mood strikes. What better way to pay tribute to him, then create a legacy of memories in the place he loved the most?

Write the memories that sights, sounds and smells jog. The silly things that get lost in our memory bank and are yet the first things that wash over us in remembering anyone. You and he had private moments as well as public displays of laughter, joy and profound memories that will never be known unless you write them down.

Let your granddaughter know him through the love of his demeanor, tales he told and be as desriptive as you want. I think so many people feel silly recanting the mundane moments - but when my grandfather died, I gobbled up every letter, every comment people had. I wanted to know everything that made him who he was.

You can create his life and worth for her so she grows up knowing him whether he is physically there to hold her or only through painted memories. They will be as real as his arms that had surrounded her.

I hope this trip gives you peace and a sense of comfort and I thank you for taking the time to remind all of us what is important, even in the midst of your tragedy.

 

[pilk]

Sorry for you loss. Prayers and thoughts offered to you and your family as you journey through this time.

Jon

 

[Ness2289]

My deepest condolences!

 

[mermaidwannabe]

I am truly sorry. You will be in my prayers.

 

[Mrs. Charming]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[WeLoveLilo05]

I don't even know what to say, but I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[Craigdarroch]

There are no words.
I'm just so terribly sorry.

 

[jackemail]

So very sorry for your loss. I hope a trip to Bob's favorite place can bring some small measure of comfort.

 

[goodferry]

So sorry for your loss

 

[ValinWV]

My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers especially on Bob's birthday.

 

[disneyshakeygirl]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[Brave teacher]

Like everyone else here, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. However, I did want to say that I think you and your family/friends have planned a very loely tribute to your husband in the place he so dearly loved.