Daily Grind Monday 10/8/12

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  1. joyah

    joyah living on the funny farm

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    It's monday UGH!!! I have it off but the boys have school so I was up early.

    FIL is being a total pain again, supposidly lost himself in the garden (a good 200 yards from his house) looking for soda for mom whose been dead almost 10 years on thurs night then this am can't get himself dressed. While I'd like to believe he's not faking it just a week before he told Tom he didn't know how he could afford heat. He makes almost 4 times in pension what I make!

    So after we finish dealing with that.
    boys to bus
    vac house
    box of stuffing/gauze to truck
    drop tom at field to finish job
    mom's for more party stuff need to finish sign designs and print.
    throw dinner in crockpot at somepoint

    I know there is more.

    Rebecca continued prayers for you all
     
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  3. morgansmom2000

    morgansmom2000 DIS Veteran

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    Ugh, Christy. I hope he's just faking :(

    No school today. Got to make my layer cake and icing this morning. My mom's birthday is today, so we'll probably run by there with her card. Going to see Nemo 3D this afternoon. Cake decorating class is tonight.

    Hope everyone has a good day!

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  4. rlovew

    rlovew Moderator Moderator

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    Have a good day everyone!

    I am feeling overwhelmed by all the decisions I need to make- mom has passed a lot of them onto me and while I understand it doesn't make making them easier.

    Today:
    call mom to decide on open/closed casket
    funeral home to choose out casket- anything else they need and give info for the obituary
    funeral for family friend who died Thursday from brain cancer
    paperwork together for church conference this evening
    meet up to carpool to church conference
    get in touch with siblings to see who wants to speak at the funeral
    get copy of piano accompaniment for a song I want at the funeral that our musician doesn't know
    send piano piece to the musicians
    make list of things we need to have done before the services
    contact people to let them know I gave the wrong time for the viewing in the bulletin and to the other churches in the area
    begin shopping for food for when everyone is here for the weekend
    clean guest bathroom

    That is enough for today saying that it will take 45 minutes to get to the funeral home and the funeral is also 45 minutes from the house.

    Rebecca
     
  5. PrincessNancy96

    PrincessNancy96 Scrapbook Mom Moderator

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    Sorry you are having issues with FIL, Christy....
    Rebecca, continued prayers. I know things are rough right now.. Know we are here if you need anything.

    Prayers and pixie dust to all those in need..
    I hope everyone has a wonderful day.

    Today:

    boys up and off to school
    DD up for dental appt
    to town for last of errands
    lunch w/ DH and DD

    make sure we have everything ready for our trip tomorrow
    pick up boys
    homework/snack

    family dinner


    Have a great day!!
     
  6. Reddy

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    Prayers & pixie dust to all

    Today is busy
    boys school
    work for me - DH is off today
    horseback riding
    Soccer for James
    DH will cook supper

    we should have one of the 2 that was out back today - I"m hoping anyways
     
  7. joyah

    joyah living on the funny farm

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    Hang in there Rebecca. You can only do so much don't wear yourself out trying to do it all. Thoughts and more prayers coming to you. You need them I just need to vent.

    The saga continues....... tom's now taking him to the ER. What really bugs me is this "person" is taking away care form someont who really needs it..... it's going to be a LONG day here cause while I try not to fight with Tom I'm so sick of him jumping like a puppet for this man.
     
  8. Reddy

    Reddy Scrapbooker

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    why the ER?? why didn't he make an appt with his dr??
    I have a friend that is an ER nurse - they will make him wait if someone else comes in that really needs them. so Tom might have a long day in the waiting area - I hate to sound mean but I don't understand why people go to the ER if it really isn't an emergy(sp??) last time I went they were several people there for allergies :confused3 they got mad when we were seen first (broke elbow)
     
  9. joyah

    joyah living on the funny farm

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    Tom says he's leaving him off and he's on his own, well see if it happens or not. He told tom that dyalisis ignored him on fri when he said he didn't feel good. This has always been his pattern, if he doesn't get what he wants he goes there cause they can't ignore him. I hope they make him wait all day and 1/2 the night. This man just doesn't get it. If you ask him if he called his dr he'll tell you they told him to go to the er! He apparently thinks we fell off the turnup truck yesterday. I so badly want to call the dyalisis unit and ask but I'm trying to stay out of it. Tom sticks his head in the sand and ignores the issues too so if I stay out of it then he has to deal with it and I feel like if he wants to play into the games his "father" plays then you deal I'm done dealing with this horse manure. I've been the good DIL and done more than I should have and I'm sick of it. It just stinks cause it then causes Tom to be a jerk to me cause he's stressed and you always take it out on the ones you love. I have never backed down from a fight in my life so i find it VERY hard not to be baited by the attitude......
     
  10. lovingthemouse

    lovingthemouse magic is in the heart of the beholder...

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    Christy - sending hugs to you!!! I am so sorry that you have to deal with al these problems once again.
     
  11. Reddy

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    keep venting to us & not to him
    I think I would be tempted to call the ER & let them know that the dyalisis didn't do what he wanted so that is why he is there & see how long they can make him wait for his fun
    has he done this before?? it maybe in his file so they already know (&then will take the allergy people before him)
    good luck on staying out of it - I know I would have a hard time doing that even knowing it is best
    :grouphug:
     
  12. joyah

    joyah living on the funny farm

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    Thanks Caroline!

    Reddy I'm tempted to call both, cause he has no way to dyalisis from there. A transportation company picks him up at home and drops him off. They will only pick him up at home. So he's made another bed lets see how he gets himself out of this one, oh wait he'll call tom whinning and tom will run and get him cause of the guilt trip. Man I wish I could guilt trip him into a few things :stir: I'm in a witchy mood today! So much for a nice day off with no kids I was so looking forward to.:furious:
     
  13. mommy2mrb

    mommy2mrb Mama to a Princess - But I'm A Scrap Princess!

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    Good Morning!

    Rebecca, take some time today to breathe and rest :hug:
    Christy, sorry he is being a pain again!
    Cheryl, hope you are feeling better!

    P & PD to anyone else in need!

    home from a relaxing and fun weekend with my girl, now back to realty!

    Today:
    girls to Jazz
    finish laundry
    finish cleaning
    fill out all the fundraising paperwork to turn in
    make appts for my yearly
    p/u megan
    dinner - tacos
    tap class


    have a wonderful day!
     
  14. JJ&JHsmom

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    Good Morning!

    Rebecca, we are continuing to pray for you and your famliy.
    Christy, so sorry you are dealing with this.
    Lisa, glad you and Megan had a good trip.

    Prayers and pixie dust to all those in need.

    No school here so we are having a lazy day. Need to get the laundry done and Julia wants to make an apple pie.

    Hope everyone enjoys today!
     
  15. JohnsonsLoveDisney

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    Monday again..... blah!

    The boards are still being super slow for me. not sure why...

    Christy hope you can try and relax on your day to yourself :)

    Jennifer, have fun tonight at your cake class. I loved those classes

    P and PD to those in need

    Already done today:

    DD#3 up and to school
    PO run
    J's run
    home

    Left to do:

    Other kiddos ready to leave
    pick up DD#3 from school
    shoe store for fittings for them all for wedding shoes................ ugh!
    home
    lunch
    scrappy stuff
    take DD#2 to bon bon practice
    home
    dinner
    more scrappy stuff
    bed time
    school tomorrow!
     
  16. BernardandMissBianca

    BernardandMissBianca <font color=red>I just love a dancing banana!<br>< Moderator

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    Happy Birthday DS12!!!!!!!!!

    Rebecca, continued hugs and prayers, sorry you are having to take the brunt of the funeral arrangements. I hope mom and the boys are doing ok.
    Take care of yourself too!

    UGH, canceling the WDW trip tonight.
    BFF is having money issues and other BFF is going through IVF, which was postponed a month. So, we are aiming for next December.
    I really want to go to WDW!
    Maybe I can convince DH to let me take DS12 to WDW for Everest Challenge in May.
     
  17. PrincessNancy96

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    Tell DH if he pays for me.. I'll go! LOL
     
  18. JohnsonsLoveDisney

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    Buffy, that's a huge bummer. Hopefully next year. :)
     
  19. BernardandMissBianca

    BernardandMissBianca <font color=red>I just love a dancing banana!<br>< Moderator

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    LOL you have to run though!! Or be my ChearSquad!

    Yeah, I think I'm the saddest of the group. My kids were like, Eh, whatever. LOL
    But I already have a big blow out planned for next year. I can celebrate my 40th with a bunch of friends.
     

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