Hi! I just had to respond to you. As someone with very interesting family dynamics, I have to tell you: Choose your resort and let them know your plans! You are all adults and should have a say in where you each will be comfortable. CR is very convenient with small children and even if it wasn't, that is where you want to stay! You can easily meet up in the parks, for ADRs, and if they want to spend time with your kids. Life is all about choices. If they choose not to use their RCI points, then that is fine. If you choose to stay at CR, that is fine too. Disney is far too expensive to plan a trip that you are not 100% happy with. You are not required to stay with them. Would you like to? Yes. But again, you can not be help hostage to the wishes of others, especially if they are coming on a trip you had already planned. Be kind and sweet and tell them what your plans are. Then tell them they are welcome to join in on any part that they want. Period...end of story! On another note, we scored a GW discount for July and are looking forward to our first CR stay. Poly is our usual, so we are trying something new. Hope we love it!