My 3 yr old daughter has a sensory/texture eating disorder and pretty much only eats soft foods. She won't eat anything at a restaurant except for apple juice. She eats just macaroni and cheese for dinner (no judgement, we have tried everything to get her to eat more foods). So We always bring her special food with us wherever we go.. will the cruise kitchen make her favorite macaroni and cheese if we bring it with us?
Also, she's lactose intolerant and only drinks soy milk. Can I bring soy milk on board? Order it somewhere?
They have soy milk onboard. Someone else mentioned that the Dream recently started carrying individual boxes (Silk). They will not make special mac and cheese---they do not carry lactose free cheese products or Daiya (casein free cheese). They have regular mac and cheese, but will try to make you anything she can eat with their own products.
If she is that specific, you might want to create things for her that mimic what they have onboard so that she will already be used to eating it.
My DD has allergies and previously some sensory + food texture issues. We were actually receiving OT during the time she had sensory issues. Feel free to ask any questions and I'll try to let you know our experiences.
I would bring a TON of snacks onboard. Yes, they are allowed. We brought grocery bags full of sealed snacks/breads/juice boxes (people looked at us weird) but my kid had to eat, so whatever. You cannot bring homemade foods, or meat/plants/veggies/fruits.
If your kid likes pasta, they will make mac and marinara or mac & bolognese if you want to avoid cheese. They also do grilled chicken strips or pan fried chicken strips. For dessert there is Vanilla Rice Dream (only flavor they have). For breakfast they have sealed cereal containers, and they make soft allergy pancakes. There's also Uncrustables, if your kid will eat that.
Either way, my best advice is for you to have her practice on foods that they have on the ship or that you can safely bring. That way you're not stuck with no options. To be honest, my DD was pretty hungry by the time we got off the ship (by our 3rd, 3 nighter cruise). I waited until she was 3.5 before bringing her on a 7 night cruise and she was still pretty limited in terms of food repertoire and what she could find on the ship. They try hard for you, but they are very limited in what they have.