I need to plan a shower for someone who has nothing at all -- a kitchen shower is what it will be. I'll send a recipe card in the invitation and ask everyone to bring a recipe written out for the bride to be. I haven't thrown a shower in years and years. Suggestions? thoughts? fun ideas? I know some of you have been to showers. What tips do you have? The shower will be afternoon -- no meal, just dessert. Thanks for any help you can provide.