My Aspie DS 14 is doing miserably in school. After 5 years of evals and meetings I finally got him a 504 plan. He is really struggeling to get his homework and assignments completed and handed in. So now (after much debate between the two of us) he has an agenda sheet that is in the front of his binder. He writes his assignments down and has his teachers sign it to make sure he wrote everything correctly. The problem is he still is not handing all his work in. His science teacher just called me (he is in real danger of failing) and he did not hand in last night's homework. She also said he was totally "out of it" in class today. I try to talk to him at home and he growls at me and gets angry. I would love any suggestions from people who have done ths before. How hard do you push? I've taken away almost everything he cares about before and the work didn't change. How do know what is regular teen stuff and what is not?