I am a new seller on Ebay - really getting into it and I've made $300 in a couple of weeks. I specifically state I only ship in the US. I had an auction end and the winning buyer is in Germany. I had other bidders, so I decided not to hassle with International shipping and do the second chance offer with the next highest bidder instead. I filed a request to mutually withdraw with the Germany bidder stating the reason that I don't ship Internationally and that it was noted in my auction. They haven't responded yet and it's been a couple of days. They haven't paid for the item, because I need to calculate what the international shipping would be to get the total. Tonight I get home and there is a message from them asking for the total so they can pay???!!! I sent them a seperate email telling them about the mutual withdrawal, and Ebay sent them the official request. Should I be doing anything else? Can I go ahead and ship the item to the other bidder? I'm nervous I could get dinged on my feedback, although the Ebay policies are very clear that I do not have to sell to this person since they didn't adhear to my auction rules. Any advice?