This is a hard one, and I need all the help I can get. I have been selling for a while on EBAY and have not had any problems- until now. I had some listings close May 1, they all sold, and I have received payment for all but four items- I had not heard anything for the buyer, for a few days after I sent the invoice, then they emailed back and said they were sending a money order. Fine, no problem. Well, didn't come and didn't come. May 15, I emailed back asking if payment sent, etc. I get a response back that he had been in the hospital, a little behind on emails, and will get on this ASAP. I say fine, no problem. Still nothing. I email yesterday, asking if He is unable to make the payment, I will have to put unpaid item report out just to get my fees back. He emails back saying he will be making it to the bank soon, on respirator and in wheelchair, has been in the hospital, on disability, etc. What do I do now? If he can't buy the items no problem- I would just like to get my fees back- I don't want to do an unpaid item report, but this has been almost a month! Isn't there a time limit that you have to file within to get fees back? Please help me!!! I am a nice person, and a trustworthy seller, but I feel like I am getting the runaround! I hate feeling like I don't believe him, but I don't know what else to do Thanks!!! I love all my DISer friends and know I can trust you for some good advice. DH says to just put in the report, but I want to be nice!