Hi everyone. I have never posted on this part of the DIS before, but I did have a question and thought I could find some helpful advice here. We (my DH, his sister, myself, etc.) think that DH's brother may be gay. He is in his late 20s and lives very far from us. I have told him that if he is, it wouldn't matter to us...that we love him and only want him to be happy and with someone that treats him nicely....wether a man or a woman. But, he never really responds so in the last couple years when he visits we don't really say much about it. I was thinking that when he is ready he would be ready. I guess my question is is there anything else I could say to show him we love him or do I just wait for him to be ready....if the day ever comes. I just feel that we aren't as close as we could be and it is sad for me as my kids get older and he doesn't visit as much as we would like..and hardly knows them. I wonder if he has found someone and just doesn't want to bring him around....when we would be very accepting and would rather be a part of his life....what to do?