After reading some of the good reviews of this package, my husband and I are considering the posibility of booking it for our October 2005 cruise. Since we will be sailing with our little girl, I am not sure how "romantic" I am expecting it to be, but hopefully we will find some time. For the experts, I have some questions. 1. If we book this package, we would like to be able to do Palo Dinner with our friends that are traveling as well. Can we make the reservation ahead of time for all of us, or is it only allowed for two? Would they also need the package in order for us to do it? (They are not in our room so that "booking for everyone" thing isn't a problem.) 2. Is the spa massage the full length one? We had a package like this on our honeymoon but it was only a 1/2 hour massage as I remember. I'd rather have the full thing. 3. Has anyone done this with kids in the room, and if so, was it worth it? 4. How close to the trip do you set all of this up? Obviously since we are more than a year out from our sailing (*sigh*) this isn't a huge rush! Thanks!