I think i am being rude but don't know what else to do

[sissy_ib]

Originally Posted by mfd25wife

I've had people ask where I'm from because I'm have a southern accent. But, I've never had anyone ask what street I live on whether I was at the doctor, or on a plane, or anywhere.

Good for you. I have on the city bus and train.

[Lynne M]

Originally Posted by tinkerbellandeeyor

Good point but the reason this thread was stared was because these same people are calling me a snob for reading the entire bus ride or listing to music depending who is on board

I bet you a lot of people on the bus you ride are reading or wearing headphones. And no, it's not rude or snobby, not at all. There's no obligation to talk to anyone, if you don't want to.

Public transportation is a little different environment, people seem to like to keep to themselves. They're either tired 'cause it's morning, thinking about what they need to be doing at work that day, or it's the end of a long, stressful day and they just want to be alone with their thoughts for a little while.

I know when I used to ride the train a lot, it seemed like most people were reading newspapers, reading a book, doing work, napping, or lost in their thoughts. If friends were riding together, they'd be chatting, but everyone else was quiet.

[Disney LOVE Travel]

Originally Posted by tinkerbellandeeyor

Good point but the reason this thread was stared was because these same people are calling me a snob for reading the entire bus ride or listing to music depending who is on board

I think that's ridiculous. You don't owe those people anything. I think eye contact and a polite smile are sufficient. If you're in the mood to start a conversation, you will. If not, it shouldn't matter to them. Sorry you have to deal with that on your daily commute!! Good luck and listen to my old friends at Fraggle Rock: "Dance your cares away. Worry's for another day. Let the music play."

[tinkerbellandeeyor]

Originally Posted by Disney LOVE Travel

I think that's ridiculous. You don't owe those people anything. I think eye contact and a polite smile are sufficient. If you're in the mood to start a conversation, you will. If not, it shouldn't matter to them. Sorry you have to deal with that on your daily commute!! Good luck and listen to my old friends at Fraggle Rock: "Dance your cares away. Worry's for another day. Let the music play."

I used to love that show and good point and I have nothing to gain from them so I need to stop caring what they think

[pookybean]

when i have to take the bus/subway i have my headphones on and sing jiggle around a little. i figure i will be the weirdo so the weirdos leave me alone!

[PeterPanic]

Originally Posted by pookybean

when i have to take the bus/subway i have my headphones on and sing jiggle around a little. i figure i will be the weirdo so the weirdos leave me alone!

Good plan!

[tinkerbellandeeyor]

Originally Posted by pookybean

when i have to take the bus/subway i have my headphones on and sing jiggle around a little. i figure i will be the weirdo so the weirdos leave me alone!

I agree

[goofyintoronto]

Originally Posted by pookybean

when i have to take the bus/subway i have my headphones on and sing jiggle around a little. i figure i will be the weirdo so the weirdos leave me alone!

LMAO! That's awesome. So funny. Lol!