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Old 10-18-2012, 11:35 AM   #691
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Just letting you know baby and I are OK.

I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up with one little hand and pressed it against mine, I could feel this tiny little hand against mine. For a second or two, I actually smiled. So I know when he gets here, I will begin to feel better.
Like he was reaching out to you knowing you and he are a team now! What a sweet moment.
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How sweet. Maybe he knows how much his mommy is fighting for his future. You are a great Mother. A good mom will go to any lengths to protect her cub-and that's just what you're doing.

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Old 10-18-2012, 11:49 AM   #693
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Just letting you know baby and I are OK.

I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up with one little hand and pressed it against mine, I could feel this tiny little hand against mine. For a second or two, I actually smiled. So I know when he gets here, I will begin to feel better.
He was giving you a high-five for getting him to a safe and loving place where he can grow up happy!
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Old 10-18-2012, 12:01 PM   #694
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First time poster but I have been reading along and just wanted to say good for you and I am glad you are safe. I dont know what part of Canada you moved back to but I am in the Barrie ON area and if you are anywhere close and need a friend for coffee and a chat I am hear, Please feel free to PM me.
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Old 10-18-2012, 12:12 PM   #695
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He was giving you a high-five for getting him to a safe and loving place where he can grow up happy!
That was my exact thought.. He was giving mom a high-five for getting him to a safe and loving place!! I was thinking he was giving her a high-five to say "you rock mom!!"
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He was giving you a high-five for getting him to a safe and loving place where he can grow up happy!


OP, There is no stronger bond than that of mother & child. I'm so glad you have that new little one to focus on.

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Like he was reaching out to you knowing you and he are a team now! What a sweet moment.
That's exactly what i was thinking! he's letting you know that he's there for you and knows that you're there for him!
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Old 10-18-2012, 01:47 PM   #698
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Just letting you know baby and I are OK.

I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up with one little hand and pressed it against mine, I could feel this tiny little hand against mine. For a second or two, I actually smiled. So I know when he gets here, I will begin to feel better.
I am so relieved that you and baby are home with your parents and both safe and healthy. You are a wonderful mom already and your baby will be very lucky that you have loved and taken such good care of him.

As far as the "worst person in the world" well I think that award should go to the grown man who chose a teenage lover over his wife and unborn child.

You did the right thing, since he could not make up his mind about who he would rather stay with, you made the decision for yourself and baby. Kudos to you and your baby, who will have a much better role model in his grandpa (your dad) being in his life as a male influence.

Hugs, and know we are all here when you do feel like venting or need support..
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I just want to say, give your cell phone to your parents until you're feeling better. Block his e-mails, and those of anyone else who's bringing you down. If he keeps calling, have your parents tell him to back off, that you'll call him when you're ready.

Just give yourself the space you need to think, and to heal. And for the love of heaven, don't let anyone make you feel like a horrible person. You have done nothing wrong. Nothing.

Your husband needs to understand that actions come with consequences, and what he did destroyed his marriage. And the responsibility is 100% his. I know he's a child, and he doesn't understand that he can't have everything he wants, but that's the way it is. As a friend in a similar situation said, "you can't un-ring that bell."
I've been following since your first post and have to jump in and say I wholeheartedly agree with this!

When I found out my ex-DuH was cheating on me, my 6-month old son and I took off in the same fashion that you did (left a note and moved back home to a safe and loving environment). I specifically told my parents I would not be answering the phone and to let him know when he called (and yes, he called A LOT - at all hours of the night) that I would speak to him when I was ready.

You are stronger than you realize, OP. And your parents sound amazing! What a wonderful home you are bringing that precious bundle into! He's so lucky to have you as his Mom.

Also happy to hear that everything went well with the Doctor this morning. High fives all around!

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Just letting you know baby and I are OK.

I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up with one little hand and pressed it against mine, I could feel this tiny little hand against mine. For a second or two, I actually smiled. So I know when he gets here, I will begin to feel better.
Awwww, wonderful news!

I agree, he was high 5'ing you that everything's going to be alright...thanking you for loving and taking such good care of him.

BTW ~ do you have any names picked out for your lil bundle of joy?
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Thank you so much for updating us. We are ALL so proud of you. Be safe!
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Old 10-18-2012, 03:54 PM   #702
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So glad to hear all of this - and what a wonderful moment at the ultrasound. Yes he was saying 'well done mum'.

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Old 10-18-2012, 04:08 PM   #703
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i was just about to ask if she did make it or not...
glad she did...

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Old 10-18-2012, 04:50 PM   #704
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That was my exact thought.. He was giving mom a high-five for getting him to a safe and loving place!! I was thinking he was giving her a high-five to say "you rock mom!!"
I was thinking this too!!

I'm so glad the little guy is doing well. Great news!

Get some rest and relax a little bit now - for you and that little cutie.


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Old 10-18-2012, 06:22 PM   #705
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Congratulations.....I'm glad you in Canada safely and your ultrasound went great. The high five was the for you.

You are a great mother to do this for your son. Baby steps and come back here for support.
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