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Old 10-18-2012, 01:27 AM   #676
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I just wanted to let you guys know I got to Canada safely. The flight was uneventful and so far the baby seems to be doing fine. We have our Dr appointment tomorrow morning to double check on him (and on me, I guess.)

Leaving was the hardest and most horrible thing I've ever had to do. It's been a nightmare since I got back too. It's honestly too horrible to talk about right now, I'll update you guys on the details when I can. I feel like the worst person in the world. I miss my cats. I want to go to bed and wake up and have this all have been a bad dream. My dad made an appointment for me to see a counselor next week, which I guess might be helpful.

Anyway, enough of the dramatics. I'll update quickly tomorrow after the Dr appointment, but I might need some time to talk everything else.

Oh sweetie, I am so glad you are safely home now in Canada! I know you miss your life but you must know you have made the best and the right decision to go home to your family to have your baby.

I am so glad you will be talking to a counselor. Your Dad is a great dad to set that up for you. You may want to see the counselor several times a week. It will be good to talk all this out with a professional who will know just how to help you and your baby.

And remember we are all here for you as well.

Good luck at the appt tomorrow.

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I am so glad you made it safely. You had to do it. The environment your H had you in was not safe or healthy for you or the baby.

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Old 10-18-2012, 06:38 AM   #678
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Old 10-18-2012, 06:50 AM   #679
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Old 10-18-2012, 06:59 AM   #680
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I also have been following but this is my first post.

I am glad you are safely with your parents.

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I think your H underestimated you. He had no idea what a strong and smart women you are.
I so agree. I bet he was shocked to see you leave.

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I just want to say, give your cell phone to your parents until you're feeling better. Block his e-mails, and those of anyone else who's bringing you down. If he keeps calling, have your parents tell him to back off, that you'll call him when you're ready.
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Old 10-18-2012, 07:23 AM   #681
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When someone we know and cared about was going thru this ...before her baby was born she asked the lawyer...do we have to take his last name...and she said ...you can name your child Mickey Mouse and it will be fine...so maybe take your maiden name back when you get divorced ...and the baby could already have your maiden name...that way ...no problems with him having a different last name then yours...just a thought..
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SO happy you are home and safe with your amazing parents...one step at a time sweetie...one day...we are here for you as your parents and relatives are there for you..
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When someone we know and cared about was going thru this ...before her baby was born she asked the lawyer...do we have to take his last name...and she said ...you can name your child Mickey Mouse and it will be fine...so maybe take your maiden name back when you get divorced ...and the baby could already have your maiden name...that way ...no problems with him having a different last name then yours...just a thought..
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SO happy you are home and safe with your amazing parents...one step at a time sweetie...one day...we are here for you as your parents and relatives are there for you..
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You have a few weeks to let things settle down and get your thoughts in order but I do second this suggestion. Give this some serious thought over the coming weeks. You can get the ex's name cleanly and completely out of your life. Give DS your maiden name at birth and then reclaim your maiden name for yourself as soon as you officially drop that 200 pounds (or so) of LOSER!
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I just wanted to let you guys know I got to Canada safely. The flight was uneventful and so far the baby seems to be doing fine. We have our Dr appointment tomorrow morning to double check on him (and on me, I guess.)

Leaving was the hardest and most horrible thing I've ever had to do. It's been a nightmare since I got back too. It's honestly too horrible to talk about right now, I'll update you guys on the details when I can. I feel like the worst person in the world. I miss my cats. I want to go to bed and wake up and have this all have been a bad dream. My dad made an appointment for me to see a counselor next week, which I guess might be helpful.

Anyway, enough of the dramatics. I'll update quickly tomorrow after the Dr appointment, but I might need some time to talk everything else.
No doubt, he has been calling you, trying to lay a guilt trip on you.

Time to get new cell phones, all-around and I agree with whoever said "turn the cell phone over to your parents". You may make a call, in a weak moment, and regret it later.

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So good to hear you are back home and surrounded safe and sound by those who truly love you and baby . Lord knows, you are not the worst person in the world, you were forced into survival mode and doing what's best to protect yourself and innocent child... mentally, physically and spiritually. I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling, just remember to stay strong, take it one day at a time, lean on your faith, loving parents and family.

You can do this, you and your lil one are top priority and deserve the best life has to offer . Best wishes sweetie, your parents and counselor will help you work through all this anxiety and to be strong. Know, many Dis friends are praying for you and your lil blessing.

Godspeed and your sweet baby
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Hugs TRK! Stay Strong! I know this has been a roller coaster but you are home safe with love and family to support you and your little man!
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Op, I just found & read the entire thread. You are an amazing women with amazing parents. You will be an amazing mom! You just took the first (but probably not last) hard steps to protect your baby as a mama should! I really don't have words for your DuH! Well, I do.....just can't use them here.
When you start to feel down, which is understandable with all you are going through, just remember that you & your baby have touched all our lives through this post. We are awed by your strength, intelligence & clear thinking in this situation. You have safely extracted you & your baby from a potentially dangerous situation! We are all rooting for you! Good decisions, OP! Congratulations on your safe return to Canada!
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:23 AM   #687
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Can the Op tell her DH to stop calling and go through a lawyer for all communication? I know I would hate to talk to this man and I would want a middle person to do all the communicating for me.
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Old 10-18-2012, 10:31 AM   #688
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Just letting you know baby and I are OK.

I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up with one little hand and pressed it against mine, I could feel this tiny little hand against mine. For a second or two, I actually smiled. So I know when he gets here, I will begin to feel better.
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Just letting you know baby and I are OK.

I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up with one little hand and pressed it against mine, I could feel this tiny little hand against mine. For a second or two, I actually smiled. So I know when he gets here, I will begin to feel better.
awwwwwwww thats the sweetest thing! Im glad youre safe and now. Once your little one arrives im sure you will be much happier. The best thing that ever happened to me was the birth of my son, despite the situation i was in at the time. Im glad youre safe. Stay strong.
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You have been amazing through all of this. I am glad to hear that you are back home, and thrilled that your dad has set up a counseling appointment for you. What a wonderful support they are going to be!

I have not been through this, but have a feeling things are going to feel worse before they feel better--only because you have now left your home, your job, and everything that has been constant. It's a huge adjustment and you are going to have a lot of emotions that are going to test you. Stay strong. It will be at this time in the move that you are going to feel the strongest pull to go back to California.

Make sure you go to the counselor, get in as soon as possible. I hope you can go at least twice a week for awhile.

You are amazing, strong, and I know that you and your child are going to have a wonderful life!
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