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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Western PA
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QOTD Wednesday, October 10
If a friend or family member was just starting out on his/her weight loss journey, what advice would you give them? I'll be back later with replies. Have a healthy day ![]() Jill |
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All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: Northwest Florida
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2) Visualization - I spent a lot of time visualizing the day when I could shop in the "normal" section of the store, the day when I crossed the finish line of my first race, the day when someone walked up to me and didn't know who I was because I had lost so much weight. 3) Find support - my friends and family have really had to deal with a lot of "weight loss talk" from me. Did they get sick of it? Probably but they're so incredibly proud of me now. I love these boards as well. 4) Take breaks - there are just some days when I can't stand this whole thing. The exercise, the healthy food, not being able to eat a cupcake. So I take a few moments off - usually not a whole day but maybe a morning. And then I get right back on the train. 5) Track - everything. I use WW Online for food and Runkeeper on my phone for exercise (cross track with WW but I like Runkeeper because I don't have to think). That's my five that have made the difference this time. I was obese for 20+ years and started and stopped many, many times. This time has been different.
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They were sooooo good I had um.....a few.....okay fine.....several!
I have the coolest memories of going on that ride over and over with my cousin Join Date: May 2008
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The reality of setting out on a weight loss journey is that you have damaged your body or at the very least badly neglected it and it is going to take time for it to recover and rebuild! The first 2 weeks on a diet and exercise program are the worst! Your body is (or should be if you're eating right now!) detoxing from all the stuff you normally eat. You are taking refined sugars and carbs out which is good but your body is addicted to that so you're going to have headaches and terrible cravings as you detox and break the addiction! You're also adding in exercise while doing this which makes your body hurt at the same time until the muscles heal after those workouts. It is seriously almost easier to start a serious weight loss journey with a cleanse of some sort to rid your body of all the crap, get the cravings over with, and settle in but once you're past those first 2 weeks, you should be good. Week 3 is when you really start to see the impact of what you're doing. You should not feel as achy when you exercise. You should be able to comfortably start increasing your workouts. Most importantly you should be noticing some small changes in how your clothes fit, your energy, your overall feeling should be improving, and you should see weight loss avg of about 2-3 pounds per week. So overall, I would tell people....expect to not feel so good for a few weeks and then settle in for the long haul. It is a journey this trip back to healthy and it won't happen overnight. Expect to have times where you might not lose for a while, expect that you might have days where you fall back into old habits, expect to find that a journey of weight-loss is far more than about just losing weight!
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a big congratulations to all of our superstars and especially our biggest loser Join Date: Sep 2005
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Have you tried Galloway's glider drills on your short runs? It's supposed to help smooth your transitions. Here is a link to the YouTube video that used to be on the RunDisney site for anyone who is interested. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZC97nMK-Q94 Quote:
A half pound gain on vacation is a victory in my books! ![]() Pamela, glad that you had such a great week-end with your kiddos and so happy that your eye is okay! ![]() Jaina, it is tough to workout in the AZ heat in the summer (I lived there for 13 years and my Mom still lives there) but it sounds like you have a good routine for the water. I live in 4 seasons area now but aspire to be a snowbird someday. ![]() Quote:
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![]() What kind of shoes did you get? I'm breaking in a new pair of shoes, too, before the race. I got Brooks Ariel. They are clunky but work great for me. Jill, nice job getting all that crazy stuff over with at once. Hope you have smooth sailing for the rest of the week. (As smooth as can be with your roof being replaced).Quote:
![]() And speaking of s, nice job Fran on getting rid of the "just in case pants." I'll be doing a search for those tips. Thanks! Aww, Jen, we all have days like that. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, today is another day! ![]() A big and to all our superstars and especially to our Biggest Loser, bellaally! And another for Nicole our maintainer. Quote:
I will add NEVER GIVE UP!Crazy long, busy day ahead for me so I will get to it. Have a great day all!
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Only took one try and voila Likes to be barefoot at every possible occasion Join Date: Oct 2003
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I"m sure that there were days when DH wondered what kind of a B**** he married when I would walk in after being gone all day and would immediately lose my temper.... but messes make me crazy!!! Next time, claim your own food FIRST! I will often give the family first choice on leftover nights, but if there is something that is just a much smarter choice for ME, I will politely ask them to leave it. Sometimes they just don't think or realize the limited choices. Hope your day is better today.Quote:
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You may find, from the start, that you couldn't imagine giving up your weekly beer and wings night. So plan for it, save the calories/Points for it and make it a part of your plan. You may eventually find that you are okay with light beer and baked wings..... or that you can have it just once a month, instead of every week.... or that you can give it up all together without feeling deprived. But start slowly and make small changes that you can stick with!! There were a few foods that I couldn't imagine living without 5 years ago.... and most of them are RARELY part of my diet any more. I have discovered that they are JUST NOT worth the calories.... or in some cases I can limit myself to having that food much less often.... or less of it when I do splurge (things like movie popcorn, ice cream, wine, french fries, onion rings). But if someone told me 5 years ago that I had to stop eating these things totally, I would have probably given up before I even started. Quote:
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******************** Happy Wednesday friends! I really anticipated being called to work today, but I wasn't. Having a really lazy day.... just have NO motivation to do anything around the house. Dishes are done, kitchen is clean, and bed is made. I also picked up dirty clothes and emptied hampers. But beyond that.... I'm feeling rather sloth-like! Trying to cut myself some slack because I am usually such a crazy go-getter. I will finish putting two coats of primer/paint on the trim boards that I am getting ready. I have to paint them in the house because it is so stinking cold/rainy out again today! And I am considering taking out the garage windows and bringing them in to paint as well.... it won't matter if it rains into the garage a bit and it will be much easier to paint them on a flat surface in the house. But I'm feeling SO unmotivated! Off to get dinner in the crockpot! Rosemary chicken with veggies on the menu for tonight! TTYL..........................................P
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Nothing like reaching a goal to keep you motivated! Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: In the TARDIS with the Doctor
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Several of my co-workers have been asking me what diet I'm on and they're completely shocked when I tell them I'm not. It's not a diet; it's a life-style change. And honestly, I find it more liberating. While there are foods that I don't eat anymore (mainly fast food) I don't deprive myself either. I still drink chocolate milk and eat grilled cheese sandwiches and chocolate, but I make better choices about how I often I have them. You have to be willing to put in the work and I'm not going to lie, it is going to be work, but once you realize how much better you feel, you'll never want to go back. |
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*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Usually Wednesday night is date night for me and DBF...and tonight is gonna be a little different and I hope it stays that way! He is wanting to go on a walk/run before we go to dinner as part of a healthier way to "be", and I really like it. Saturday we went on a hike, which was very different from what we used to do! (I say "used to" because we won't be sitting around for much longer ) I'll let you know how it goes!
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*************** Okay.... so I made my sloth-self get moving. I did the first AND second coats of paint on the remaining side of the trim boards that are waiting to be installed and pulled out two of the three garage windows, scraped and sanded, and did a first coat of paint. My kitchen is a bit of a disaster now, but that's life. Plus dinner is cooking away in the crockpot and lunch (leftovers from last night's not-so-successful stuffed peppers) is warming! I will relax a bit while eating lunch, maybe catch up on a tv show for a few minutes, and then head up stairs to fold laundry and do a bit of scrapping! TTYL...................P
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Loves being Honey to the Hubs.. Twice in 2012! Going back in 2013!
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: Standish, Maine
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Keep up the hard work - anything worth having is worth working hard for and that is my motto for this challenge (and it's working I was #6 this week!) Quote:
![]() good views here on not DIET but Lifestyle change altho when people ask me I just say I'm taking better care of myself - watching what I eat, being more active and lovin life.. I love this little (or big) group thanks so much to all of you for posting (either everyday or whenever you can) I always find motivation, inspriation, and great advise and encouragement.. and with that I declared today no diet eat what i've been craving day as it's my bday and I have been enjoying what I want in moderation! (had eggs for breakfast and white bread for lunch along with a sinfully delish 1/2 of a whoopie pie and my hubs is making us steak dinner on the grill - steak, fingerling potatoes and green beans!) to balance this I picked up an extra Zumba class on Friday.. And even though I had to get up early and come to work it's been a great day so far .. So happy Hump day friends see you all tomorrow - lunch break is over!
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Join Date: Aug 2012
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Congrats to Alexandra, the top 10 and everyone still working toward their goal!
![]() QOTD Wednesday, October 10 If a friend or family member was just starting out on his/her weight loss journey, what advice would you give them? Don't give up.. and especially don't give up because you think you blew it on one meal, one day, one week, one month, etc. The important thing is that you keep going and keep trying to stay on track. Also-- if you think you've failed because you were on vacation and couldn't resist a cinnamon bun the size of your head (ahem.. me in WDW back in June)... just take a minute to breathe, and get back on track right there-- in THAT minute. You don't have to wait for a Monday to start, you can start with the next thing you decide to put in your mouth or with deciding to take the next step with exercise. |
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~ I apologize for not responding or replying to everyone. I read all of your responses to the QOTD and everyone offered such good advice. Sometimes I need to read other people's advice and apply it to myself. This is one of those weeks! I have had a another hectic day (DH still sick and has been in bed since 4ish) and I am just sitting down for the first time. Now, I have to get organized for tommorow, which I just realized is just as hectic (of course!). My boys have early dismissal from school, dentist appointments for both, and then tomorrow night is open house at their school. I'm hoping DH feels better so he can go with us. I'm also hoping DH feels better so he can make dinner while I have the boys at the dentist. It would help out a lot! So, again, I apologize for not being a very good coach today. Have a good night and I'll *talk* to you all tomorrow! Thanks. Jill |
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So excited
![]() I was actually able to walk on the treadmill tonight for 30 minutes with NO PAIN!!! My left foot is a little sore now that I am home but I can deal with that...it has been almost a full month since I have been able to do any exercise!!!! Woot Woot!! |
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Nuremberg, Germany
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Sorry, I don't post a lot on the thread, just don't have the time for much posting at the moment. But I wanted to say thank you for everyone who replied to the recent QOTDs about what you would advise to someone who is just starting to lose weight and about the plateau. I have been working on my weight loss for quite some time, but all your advise was so motivating!! Really gave me a boost!! So also thank you very much to our coach for asking these great questions!
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Western PA
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Good morning
I wanted to end my coaching week with another fun question. I hope you all have a great Thursday!QOTD Thursday, October 11 Do you have any pets? If yes, what kind and what are their names? Do you have any funny stories about your pets? I'll be back later to hear all about your animal families. Jill |
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