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amyy · 05-07-2010, 05:58 PM

I am very sorry for your loss and don't know exactly what to say.

I can see why you would be upset that your friends didn't put aside your differences. I am sorry.

I lost my father suddenly when I came home to find he had passed away from a heart attack in his favorite chair. Going to a grief support group really helped.

take care

Disney Daddy et al · 10-08-2010, 09:45 PM

I struggle with most days trying to stay positive. After all it is how I make my living. Each day I grieve in the morning before work as to insure I do not lose it there. I take time at night also. I walk a few miles every morning on the beach to clear my head. Find a special place that works for you. Your Mother is always with you. She lives on in your memory and the stories she gave you. Celebrate her spirit every day. You are never alone. Take Care

rie'smom · 10-09-2010, 06:27 PM

Check with your church or the funeral home for a bereavement group. My mom started going to one after my younger brother died. She made a lot of new friends.

stacopp · 10-12-2010, 10:34 AM

Thank you for all the kind words and advice. I still find it very difficult and it seems to get harder, not better, but I am managing.

angie@dvcstore · 10-20-2010, 02:58 PM

Im so sorry for your loss. Will be praying for you

kymom99 · 10-24-2010, 12:13 AM

My dad died 2 years ago and it was like a part of me was ripped from me. My ex husband came to the funeral and it meant so much to me. I can see why having your friends ingore you in your time of need hurts so much.

My mom is dying from cancer. My step daughter has not acknowledged her illness, and it has been going on for 5 months. Mom gave her some furniture just before she got sick, and she hasn't had the decency to visit her while she has been ill. She gets mad at someone in the family and stays away for months at a time, but Mom has never been anything but nice to her. It eats at me but I have to keep telling myself it is her problem.

I'm glad you have other family to support you. Concentrate on finding some friends who respect you and forget about the old ones. Everyone needs friends who will be there in times of need.

Take care and I hope you are able to find peace as time goes on.

10-08-2010, 09:45 PM	#17
Disney Daddy et al Mouseketeer Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Port Orange Posts: 124	Take time for yourself I struggle with most days trying to stay positive. After all it is how I make my living. Each day I grieve in the morning before work as to insure I do not lose it there. I take time at night also. I walk a few miles every morning on the beach to clear my head. Find a special place that works for you. Your Mother is always with you. She lives on in your memory and the stories she gave you. Celebrate her spirit every day. You are never alone. Take Care __________________ Mickey Mike

10-09-2010, 06:27 PM	#18
rie'smom "Always let your conscience be your guide." I cannot look at my hamburger after I've taken a bite Toilet paper must come over the top! Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 19,069	Check with your church or the funeral home for a bereavement group. My mom started going to one after my younger brother died. She made a lot of new friends. __________________

10-24-2010, 12:13 AM	#21
kymom99 DIS Veteran Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 944	My dad died 2 years ago and it was like a part of me was ripped from me. My ex husband came to the funeral and it meant so much to me. I can see why having your friends ingore you in your time of need hurts so much. My mom is dying from cancer. My step daughter has not acknowledged her illness, and it has been going on for 5 months. Mom gave her some furniture just before she got sick, and she hasn't had the decency to visit her while she has been ill. She gets mad at someone in the family and stays away for months at a time, but Mom has never been anything but nice to her. It eats at me but I have to keep telling myself it is her problem. I'm glad you have other family to support you. Concentrate on finding some friends who respect you and forget about the old ones. Everyone needs friends who will be there in times of need. Take care and I hope you are able to find peace as time goes on. __________________ June 2004: All Star Sports June 2005: All Star Movie June 2008: POFQ June 2010: CBR The whole gang! July 2012: 1st trip to Disneyland! June 2013: Siesta Key and RCCL Bahamas

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10-12-2010, 10:34 AM	#19
stacopp Disney Dork Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Too far away from the Mouse... Posts: 139	Thank you for all the kind words and advice. I still find it very difficult and it seems to get harder, not better, but I am managing.

10-20-2010, 02:58 PM	#20
angie@dvcstore Mouseketeer Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Orlando, FL Posts: 287	Im so sorry for your loss. Will be praying for you