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[Disneydreamer5]

Ok so I have ADR @ 8:55 in Narcoossee's for DD 12th birthday. It is actually DD19 & I that want to really go there and love seafood.

We all loved Coral Reef and were planning to go back there for her birthday but since have found out that Narcoossee's is the only place in the world, on the DDP where we can get lobster! which is not crab that is loves but close
to it.
Now not only are we using 2ts if it was up to her she would rather crab legs not lobster, although I told her she would love the lobster.
Now I am thinking since its her birthday maybe we would be better off to do the Whoop dee doo review or someplace else she would really like. Something more enjoyable for her age. We are all older but its her day.

She is happy about Narcoossee's because its in the GF and on the water so it's not that she isn't excited but I want it to be really special and my thinking was that it was a little more upscale so she could dress up a little too.
What do you all think? Keep it or is there someplace you think she would really love and the rest of us would be perfectly happy too?

Also with Narcoossee's what can we wear?
Sun dresses, sandles ok?
For the boys in the family, jeans, cargo shorts and sneakers ok?

[Beach Gal]

Narcoossee's is an excellent choice if you're looking to dress up and enjoy a wonderful meal. Make an entire evening out of it by booking a cruise on Bay Lake to enjoy the water pageant later that evening or to watch the MK fireworks! Here is the dress code for the restaurant:
Dress Code Guidelines:
Men: Khakis, slacks, jeans, dress shorts, collared shirts. Sport coats are optional.
Ladies: Capris, skirts, dresses, jeans, dress shorts.
Not permitted in dining room: Tank tops, swimwear, hats for gentleman, cut offs, or torn clothing. While T-shirts are now allowed, the policy remains that T-shirts with offensive language or graphics are not acceptable.

You can order a birthday cake for her by calling (407) 827-2253 at least 48 hrs prior to your reservation date.

If she's looking for crab legs, a great option is the Fullton Crab House steamship at Downtown Disney. It is a bit pricey, but the food is wonderful. You could complement her birthday dinner with a La Nuba (Cirque show)!

Either way, I know she'll love her special birthday dinner. You can't go wrong at Disney! Have a great time!