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Prepare your child for the path, not the path for your child. Stop telling your God how big the storm is. Instead, tell the storm how big your God is. It's time to put on your big girl panties and deal with it! Don't be so open-minded that your brains fall out. There's no pill that cures stupid. He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. ~~In loving memory of Teddy~~1994-2007~~ |
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I have been a RN/NP in the hospital setting for 13 years (mostly in ER) and you would be very suprised to know actually how many health care providers access medical records of patients they are not caring for! We aren't even allowed to access our own personal records where I work.
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As a former teacher, one of my mentors said that she would tell parents, "You believe about half of what your kid tells you happens at school, and I'll believe about half of what they tell me happens at home." ![]() What ever happened to treating others the way you would want to be treated? I would welcome any parent to call me at any time if they had a question or concern about something my child said or did whether it was regarding my personal or professional life. Especially my professional life. Let's say the mom DID access the record (which I still doubt) and she is punished? You better believe that the daughter is going to hear about THAT to put it lightly. If she went around school blabbing about something that could get her mom in trouble then what makes you think she's not going to tell EVERYBODY that her mom did get in trouble? It's not a HIPAA violation to tell people that your mom got in trouble because Johnny's mom filed a complaint against her. There's also the extremely likely chance that the mom didn't access the record, but is told that someone requested records because they believed that she did. If she didn't do it then the girl will most likely go around telling everyone how Johnny's mom "snitched" on her mom. Regardless of the outcome, I don't see either scenario making things easier on your son. I can see this making things worse for him at school though. Is it fair? No. It's also not fair that bullies get away with being bullies because kids don't want to "snitch" and cause an even bigger problem. It's no fair that MANY people are molested and/or raped and choose not to report it because they don't want to deal with the aftermath. Sometimes getting justice isn't what's best for the victim's mental health. Why don't you simply pick up the phone and call the mom? If you're not satisfied after speaking to her then the electronic record is still going to be there. It's not like she can go back and erase what happened, if anything happened at all. |
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The ONLY way to straighten this out is for OP to call the quality officer at the hospital and ask for a list of who has accessed her son's medical records. If this Dr./mom's name isn't on the list, the matter dies. If it IS, then OP can decide whether she wants to discuss it privately with Dr./mom or if she wants to file a complaint at the hospital. Personally, I'd file the complaint. If Dr/mom accessed a non-patient's medical record it's a huge HIPPA violation. What's to say this is the first, or only, time this would happen? Are you comfortable with the thought that perhaps YOUR medical records are "light reading" for someone who is interested and doesn't think she'll get caught? It also puts the medical facilities in a precarious position, because if this is happening, it will at some point come to light. The hospital will take this complaint seriously... IF OP finds out who accessed the record and IF Dr/mom is on the list. |
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I don't agree with not investigating because of some ramifications that could happen. If there were laws broken, there should be consequences. How are you going to know if you don't investigate? The plausibility runs both ways. The only definitive answer would be to investigate.
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It sounds like, OP, all you have to do is request who accessed your son's records and look on the list and see if her name is on there. If it is, proceed, because there was no reason for her to look it up. If it is not, then, yay, she did not violate any laws.
THEN, and only then, would I even consider contacting the mother to tell her that you heard that her daughter said "XX" and if her saying this could cause problems for the mother and they need to have a talk. I would not waste my breath calling her beforehand because she's going to lie, most likely, and cross her fingers that you do not look into the matter. While I know not to believe everything a child says, that child knew a lot and that raises a read flag. Therefore, I'd be looking into it. Like many have said and I have said on this thread, it happens all to often. Like I have said, I've had people tell me they've done it. Not sure I would be telling others that if I did look at a patient's records! :O Anyway, good luck with all this but my vote is to look into it.
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I did say THEN and only then would I even think about contacting her but the reality is, I do not think I'd contact her either. It really isn't up to me to warn her.
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I do think I'd probably contact the school counselor for him or her to speak with the woman's daughter. The counselor could let the girl know it's wrong to brag about her mother accessing someone's medical records. She should be informed it is unethical and punishable. The counselor may even want to speak with the child's mother too. The OP could request to remain anonymous (or not). The girl probably has bragged in the presence of others. The complaint could be framed that way, that it could have been from anyone. Most people do take HIPPA laws quite seriously.
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OP here.
At this point, I am strongly leaning towards contacting the hospital on Monday and asking for a report of who has viewed my son's records. If the mother did not do it, then no harm has been done, and I will know she is innocent of this behavior and that her daughter is stirring up trouble. If she did it, then I will have to decide what course of action to take--but that's a different decision to make. DH and I discussed it, and we think that if we ask the mom at this point, before we know for sure, she is going to deny it (of course--what else could she do?) and maybe even get angry at us for bringing it to her attention or suspecting her of something like that. I am surprised at how upset my son has been because he feels like his medical records are being made fun of by a doctor. If that happened, she needs to deal with the ramifications. If it did not happen, then he needs to know so that he does not feel that way.
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Me too. Good luck x2.
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