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Even if it is just something the girl made up, it's likely that she has no idea about HIPPA and her mother needs to explain it to her.
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Yes, but if the doctor didn't do it, the gossip about it will kill her. which is why a discrete inquiry is the way to go.
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Agreed.
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OP, call the compliance or privacy officer and find out who has accessed your sons records. It's that simple. If she didn't look at them then no big deal but if she did then I'd definately move up the chain of command and report this to everyone, admin, licensing board, HIPAA, etc... And I guess I'm one of the minority that thinks that it is very possible that the mother did this. |
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The Op and her son shouldn't be worried about getting the doctor in trouble or causing her to be the subject of gossip. If any of that happens, its not their fault. |
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Enough harm has been caused by the actions and gossip of teenagers in this situation. It needs to stop. The OP should not be exacerbating the situation. If it were me, I'd make a discrete inquiry at the hospital. If the doctor isn't guilty of a violation, I might call her and tell her what's going on so that she could deal with her daughter. If the doctor is involved, the OP should do what is appropriate .. file the appropriate complaint.
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If it's true, the hospital that her mom works for needs to know...and trust me, they WANT to know. If it's not true, the daughter needs some education on the effect that kind of a lie will have on her mother's career. If I were the mother, I would want the investigation, so that there was proof that I had not done what my daughter had claimed. And then my daughter would be grounded until her 50th birthday.
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Oh, I'm sure. In fact, one of my current work assignments is creating more flexible security tools for hospitals in just that situation.
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I have close family that work in the medical field, and basicaly as long as the hospitals are on the same "network" anyone can access it, but yes, there is very strict tracking in place.
OP I'd call the privacy officer @ the hospital your son was treated at. I would tell her that you understand that this situation involves a lot of high school drama, therefore, may not be totally factual, however, you would like to request an audit of your son's records from that date of treatement to confirm that only authorized persons (involved in his treatement/care)accessed it and would like some sort of confirmation in writing as to the results of the audit. I would not feel it necessary to say "Dr. Sue's daughter said that Dr Sue @ another hospital looked at it". All I would say is I am concerned of a possible HIPAA violation and would like an audit to verify only authorized indiviudals involved in the care/treatment of my son accessed his records. THis way, if "Dr Sue" really did not look at anything, then you have in no way identified "Dr Sue" so there should be no professional stigima attached to Dr Sue or the situtaion. However, if "Dr Sue" did look at the records, then whatever happens to her, she deserves as every medical person clearly knows the HIPPA rules and if she chose to violate them, that's her problem, not yours. The only way to know for sure is to contact the hospital privacy officer and ask for an audit. Yes it's possible for a teenager to pick up medical termology.. my sister is an RN, my Aunt is a Dr and my brother is an EMT, and sometimes, my 9 year old uses words (contusion, etc) that he shouldn't "know" but does from overhearing conversations between his Aunt, Uncle & Great Aunt.
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As the mother of two former teenage girls....
Sometimes when the daughter is a gossipy little witch, she learned it from her mother. And sometimes the mother is a lovely lady and has no idea that her daughter has become something out of "mean girls".
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Op, what is the school doing for your son in this situation? It sounds like he has a terrible situation. I'd report the girl to the school guidance counselor. HIPPA violations are very serious and she should know she is jeopardizing her mom's job by repeating private information. You could request that the counselor leave you out of it, and just say it was brought to her attention that she is speaking about another student's medical condition (maybe others overheard her and/or she has spoken to others about it) and how unethical and serious it is.
What did the school do about the assault? Does your son have a plan to keep this from happening to him again? Some school counselors have the victims of assault accompanied at all times in the school. It does help to thwart further assaults. Oh, and I would file assault charges. Maybe then the boy will think twice before sucker punching your son again. Lastly, I would want to know. As others have stated, speculation is one thing. I would want it confirmed one way or the other. Leave it open ended, stick to the facts as you know them, and ask for an investigation. Also request a follow up with you on the matter. If the doctor didn't do it, great. If she did do it, it's out of your hands. Hospitals have protocols for this. The doctor of all people, knows it. Good luck. It sounds like your son has really been through it.
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Reporting the situation to the privacy officer at the hospital only starts an investigation. That is what I think you should do. Then, you will have all of the facts. If the daughter is lying, then the investigation will at lease make the mom, MD aware of what her daughter is doing. She can address how much trouble her daughter could cause for her. I would like to know if my son was doing something that I could get fired for!
However, if it is true, there have to be consequences for the MD, or the problem only gets worse. And there is a law which hospitals have to comply with by I think 2014, that all hospitals must have access to the ER databases, so they have to be able to "talk" to one another. My brother is an IT guy for lots of small area hospitals, and this is what he does all day, catching the hospitals up so they can "talk" to each other. My dad is a hospital administrator, so I'm fairly certain this is the case (it's all they gripe about at family events!)
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